How to Resolve the Issues When Two Partners in Love and How I Resolved Mine

It is wintery morning and we were in Udaipur. We were boyfriend and girlfriend before being a wife and a husband for forever. It has been relationship of not so long but merely of 3 years in which 2 years went into silence and the last third year we spoke to each other and finally expressed our feelings for each other. 

First two years went into ego, silence and wrong and right things. Although we were not speaking to each other while silently talking to each other by changing images on social media indicating what is going on in our life and what we wanted to say. Two years just went by like this and we did not get courage to talk to each other. 

She was also busy in her career and me also in mine. These things kept us buys but we were constantly thinking about each other days and nights. It often happens in love that when you love someone truly and things initially went in wrong way, you often hesitate to talk to each other thinking might your heart again and break. And seriously no one wants to break his/ her heart again and again. It is kind of disrespect you feel when the girl you love she says again and again no for your proposal.

 Although after two years we are in each other arms and next month we are going to marry. We both are happy. In Udaipur I celebrated my going-to-be husband’s birthday. And whatever I could not say two years back I all wrote in a card and lots of messages for him. These messages I took from a website where best happy birthday husband messages collection was there. 

Udaipur birthday was a great party. We visited all of Udaipur and saw all its green land and it was really surreal feel I could not describe in words. Here I want to say something different that you must keep in mind when you are in love with your ideal love partner and things are not going easy between your and her. Here is what you should do. 

• Most importantly you try to keep talking. Talk to her what she thinks like on any subject things go wrong between you and her. Sometimes you mean to say something different and she understand something different. We all know it happens. So resolve it.
• If you like someone and you are in love with her, and then initially don’t directly express your feelings because women don’t like it in the starting. Just try to be a friend of her. 
• Try to know what kind of girl she is. Sometimes it happens the things and thinking come out different.
• Ask her for a date provided you could know each other much better.
• Try to perceive the indications what she is giving you. It is totally up to you how you do it. Though all men have intuition of it.
• After spending four and five months finally express your feelings with courage and confidence. 
• Keep in mind no every girl you are attracted to is not your girl. For life love is necessary but love is not everything. After marriage when you go ahead in your life, you need other things too. So talk it out all before going into serious relationship.
• There are no rules and regulations for people how they happen into love because it just happens when it happens. There is no love book also. The only thing is you need to talk and resolve the issue. Sometimes it takes time when both people are shy, stubborn and patient. Sometimes they don’t want you but only pretend.
• Before going into serious relationship, build yourself financially strong. Money matters also.